SOMEONE ASKED: In this blog posts you have mentioned that most of the time the people who are our villains and cause us pain and suffering are our best friends on the astral plane and that they have agreed on the astral plane to cause harm to you so that a lesson that has to be learned will be learned.
Now, one thing that raises a big question mark in my mind is that if these people agree upon the astral plane to take the role of a villain and cause pain and suffering just for the sake that we learn a few lessons, then by doing so are these villains not going to spoil their own karmas?
I mean, one of my dearest friend up there agrees to play the role of a villain in my life to teach me certain lessons, then by doing so will he not be spoiling his own karmas and accumulate fresh ones down on the earth, his levels and vibrations will go down further..?
Now, one thing that raises a big question mark in my mind is that if these people agree upon the astral plane to take the role of a villain and cause pain and suffering just for the sake that we learn a few lessons, then by doing so are these villains not going to spoil their own karmas?
I mean, one of my dearest friend up there agrees to play the role of a villain in my life to teach me certain lessons, then by doing so will he not be spoiling his own karmas and accumulate fresh ones down on the earth, his levels and vibrations will go down further..?
MY ANSWER: This is a pertinent and relevant question which I am sure must have arisen in the minds of many readers. If souls agree to cause pain in their role as ‘villain’ do they incur fresh Karma? The answer is not so cut and dry but neither is it difficult to understand.
The pain and suffering contracted and agreed upon in the blueprint, DOES NOT attract fresh Karma for the person inflicting the pain. This is termed as completion of past negative karma. Because if every word or action causing pain attracted karmic debt there would be no end to the cycle of negative debts. There has to be some avenue or method of squaring up the accounts. Hence if the ‘villain’ plays the agreed role as per the blueprint there is no accumulation of fresh negative karma. This role can be played both by causing intentional and unintentional pain.
However the key words here are agreed role as per the blueprint. The problem is that neither the villain nor the victim is able to restrict their role to what was agreed in the blueprint. It is very likely, or one could say very human for a person to react and react negatively. Therefore when you are hurt, you will in all likelihood hit back in some way or the other. Here you incur fresh karmic debt as this is out of contract. Now the ‘villain,’ being human and ignorant of the blueprint, also reacts to your reactions, hits back causing you pain. At this point the ‘villain’ will also incur fresh karma as he or she has gone beyond the contract. It is in this manner that through sheer ignorance we keep piling up a mountain of negative debts regardless whether we are victim or villain.
Now the next obvious question that will arise is do we as victim keep quiet and like a doormat get trampled upon just to avoid increasing karma? The answer is no. You have every right to defend yourself from the pain and suffering by whatever means, spiritual or physical. However that right does not grant license to cause intentional and purposeful pain to another human. You have to draw the line between defending yourself and a planned assault. The former is karma free the latter increases karmic debt.
The above thesis will show how precarious is the role of the ‘villain.’ In order to help you complete karma, that soul can land up incurring loads of fresh karmic debt with repeated cycles of negative reactions, all done in ignorance of this law. This probably explains why it requires a very close and loving friend in the astral world to agree to the role of the ‘villain.’
Dearest Guruji,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the wisdom and guidance, as always.
It really takes a great amount of understanding and conscious effort on our part for not causing pain even during defending ourselves and also work on unconditional forgiveness. The tools so lovingly showered upon us by YOU are our life saving grace without which dollops of negative karma would be accumulated. A big Thank YOU!!!
The above is the one-on-one "villian" workout..what about the so called "villians" in the world who are responsible for the mass destruction, terrorism, etc? Have they also contracted in their blueprint to behave like this for making humanity / nations understand certain lessons? Or is it sheer wrong choice/decision on their part? They really must be brave souls if they have willingly accepted to act in such a negative manner and gain worldwide criticism. Well I can only say that we are blessed to be loved and cared for by YOU and Your efforts in improving mankind. Abundant Love & Gratitude.
dear guruji
ReplyDeletehow can one come to know when our tormentor has crossed the limits he is supposed to? any suggestions how to stay away from his line of fire ? all tools have been used. forgiv. prayers said. never felt like "giving it back" . feel no emotions, good or bad. feel sorry for my villain, ignorant person. but i want out. what can be done?
please help.
Dear Guruji,
ReplyDeleteNamaste!
I have a question Guruji, Many times we meet people/strangers who invoke a quite response from us which is confusing as we do not know these people.
For eg. we feel disgust or anger, sometimes attraction or repulsion sometimes a protective feeling or sometimes a simple heartfelt joy on meeting these souls,
often these feeling maybe subdued but at times strong which adds to the confusion!
Guruji, What i want to ask is do we "sense" these feelings as their souls response to us at the subtler level or is this connection that we feel related to previous births or interactions?
I have been wondering about these for a long time.
Kindly guide us on this subject!
Namaste,
This is in response to the question by the anonymous reader, who seems to be going through some torment.
ReplyDeleteThe problem with real life villains is that there is no director to say 'CUT' when the villain goes beyond the agreed role. If you have reached a point of neutrality and have no strong negative feelings for the tormentor, then the role is mostly over. Now it is up to you to take some action by which you can come out of the circle of influence of the tormentor. Here you must use your free will, power of intent and such other tools that may be necessary to secure your freedom. However at the end of the day it will all depend on how fearless you are. YOUR FEARS WILL KEEP YOU IMPRISONED AND PROLONG YOUR SUFFERING. Maybe that is your soul's biggest test this lifetime. Be firm without being aggressive but you MUST TAKE SOME ACTION IF YOU WANT TO END SUFFERING.
Dear Vidya,
ReplyDeleteThere could be two reasons for strong or subtle feelings we have on meeting strangers. It could be a past life connection and one or both the souls seem to recognise this at the subtle level, bringing out a strong emotion almost without any obvious reason. Or at times it could be vibrational harmony or the lack of it that surfaces bringing strong feeling of attraction, disgust etc for someone you hardly know.
Though past life memories are normally well covered in order not ot disturb this life, sometimes very strong or deep connections with a soul in the past can be recognised by your soul and evoke strong emotions.
Dear Guruji,
ReplyDeletePranam!!
For the past few months my office environment has been extremely negative coz of a few new recruits who have been engaging themselves in political activities to prove their supremacy and power.
Recently I was unnecessarily dragged into a political situation by one of the new entrants.This upset me and made me feel extremely negative towards my new colleague.
Thanks to the tools and knowledge given by you I decided to make a shift from suffering to solution.I began to send immense LOVE ENERGY towards the person and the environment.I saw the situation as a WITNESS and viewed the persons as SOULS and not as their personalities.This resulted in a dramatic change in the situation.Next day the same colleague came to me and apologized for her behaviour and with my continued practice of your tools a healthy atmosphere is being restored in my office.Thus these tools not only protect me from negativity but also provide a positive environment for others around me. Thank u very much!!
Dear Guruji,
ReplyDeleteNamaste!
Thank you very much for the answer to my query!
It cleared my doubts on this subject.
adding to the same Guruji, does this mean that we must use our intuition in response to them ?
do they come with a purpose to show us something and the moment we understand the point, move on in our own pursuit to perfection?
thank you for your time Guruji,
Namaste,
This refers to the post by Anonymous on use of Love Energy. You have so effectively put into practice what I have been teaching for years. What is more important than just knowing the tools is the intensity with which you use them. I can only guess how difficult it must have been to project Love Energy to people creating trouble around you. But once you reach the required level of intensity the results are spectacular. This is one message I am trying to reach across to a lot of people who want to move from suffering to solution. The various methods I have taught are very powerful and have universal applicability. IF RESULTS ARE NOT FORTHCOMING INCREASE THE INTENSITY WITH WHICH YOU USE THE TOOLS. DON’T CHANGE THE TOOLS, BLAME THE SYSTEM OR WORSE STILL SIT CRYING AND DOING NOTHING.
ReplyDeleteI wish you had signed your name so a lot of people knowing you would have gained strength from this example, but since the matter is work related I understand your writing anonymously. Anyway now that you know the pitch required for Love Energy to work you will solve a lot of problems in life. Well done.
hi guruji,
ReplyDeletewhen we're giving love energy- we're required to love unconditionally no matter what form the soul has taken in this life time.
however, its very hard for my to ignore the character that they are. to figure out what part they're playing.i am constantly making a movie in my head. i try very hard not to judge people, but sometimes i feel im constantly judging EVERYONE, trying to dissect what has made them who they are and what makes them tick. trying to project them in my art or my writing in a particular light that is socially recognizable. im constantly trying to observe myself and my loved one- watching every move- always judging-always reasoning- sometimes it gets a bit overwhelming- but other times i feel like my thinking is perfectly normal, in order for me to produce a certain quality of work and feel satisfied with what im producing- but my emotions are very different from my thought- and i cant deal with what my thoughts make me feel, i like im cheating when i judge someone, however i love to gossip, i dont really mean the things that i say, i have a sense of humour which is rather start and shocking by social standards- i feel intense pain, intense pleasure, intense excitement and nothing about my actions is moderate- at a point where nothing that people say effects me at all, im like a stone but sometimes what they do to each other effects me in a way i didnt imagine it would- i just trying to figure out where i stand and also wondering if there will be end to my confusions?? but on the other hand i think if im not confused all the time im not growing. and every time i start feling satisfied with life i start feeling scared that my brain is getting redundant, on the other hand i feel exhausted because im always trying to solve something-
i feel like an insider and an outsider at the same time.
i dont know what to do guruji- but would really like to know your thoughts about how i can stop myself from affecting myself because noone else can do anything to alter my thinking. why am i always festering?
lots of love and light to you,
thanking you,
sakshi.
Sakshi Sakshi Sakshi!! Had to read your dissertation three times to remove my confusion, but anyway happy to know that you guys in the movie making business have the luxury of living in a state of confusion. You know once upon a time I too was 22 like you, I too had artistic talents swirling in me (of course what I created then will die with me), I too felt raging passion, extreme excitement and complete confusion. I too wondered whether I was inside or outside. And then horror of horrors it happened!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI GREW UP. The reality of daily existence hit hard. The struggle to survive simply sucked up all the joys of the glorious confusion I used to indulge in. I had to get real, head out of the clouds, feet firmly on the ground. How I hated being street smart, practical, responsible, proper and entering the monotonous rat race every day. You have no idea what I would have given to go back to the days of unfettered confusion.
So my dear Sakshi you have two options. Remain in this envious state of bliss you are in right now, or do the following:
1. Get a hideously boring 9 to 7 job.
2. Use public transport twice a day in peak hours.
3. Get married
4. Make babies
5. Live with In-laws
6. Buy property paying huge EMIs
The above six steps will guarantee removing every ounce of confusion you are going through today.
Dearest Guruji,
ReplyDeleteHow I loved your above comment and identified with it ha ha he he. Your humuor always hits home. It is so true that the reality of day-to-day existence moulds most of us into responsible but boring personalities. We are so busy living for family that we forget to take care of ourselves. And our ever bloated ego which creates clashes with loved ones...etc...etc. I am sure all the readers would like to retract into childhood or young adulthood where we enjoyed carefree days. But through the learnings of these harsh realities we are guided to improve ourselves and seek the alternate path. Me for sure feel totally blessed and grateful for each experience which though at that time drained me, but as an afterthought I realize the valuable lessons it taught me. I keep repeating this & is my firm belief that my emerging out each time is only and only because of Your guidance, rock support and tremendous grace. Never did YOU make me feel that I am alone. Miles apart but always in my heart. Love YOU a lot. Zillion thanks.
aah guruji,
ReplyDeletethank you so much for your reply.
im so thankful i have someone who can put things in perspective for me.
i guess growing up is all about picking my battles and seeing them through without complaining.
the saddest thing i discovered is that i can never run away from the practicle realities of life. no matter how much i may wish it
i rather not have the boring life that you mentioned. but i may want it when im 30 or something. :-D
im just trying to pack in as many experiences as i possibly can in this life. hopefully with your blessings i will be successful.
i guess i should stop saying WHY and start saying WHY NOT- to things.
thank you so much,
its always so wonderful to hear back from you
hope you are well other wise.
love and light
sakshi.
There Sakshi you got the message perfectly..........and WHY NOT!!!
ReplyDeleteAN EXPERIENCE BY VANDANA SINHA
ReplyDeleteI'm sharing my experience with all of you-
There was heavy silence like dense fog, like mist hanging low. A very potent silence as if ready for manifestation, a silence pregnant with potential happenings. I do not know how else to put it. The anubhava and the anubhuti and when it happened it transcended all boundaries of time and space. It was a divinely beautiful experience as what unfolded before me left me gasping for breath . The cosmic dance of Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi. While I was witnessing the sacred dance of Narayana simultaneously there was huge humming sound or buzzing sound emanating from my heart region very distinct and audible. And then the vision faded, but it came back again with greater force. The exquisite dance again filled the entire space and there was an intense presence of guruji. I could not see him but his presence was all pervading, omnipotent and omnipresent. He was just everywhere. This could not have happened without his grace. My heartfelt gratitude to him and I think that thank-you is just a mere word and pales into insignificance for all that he does for us in his most subtle ways.
Dear Guruji
ReplyDeleteWhat I am about to ask u now is not related to what u have written above but it does relate to some of your teachings...
We have all received a fair amount of thrashing from our parents when we were growing up. Usually it would be if we had done something wrong.But today we are evolved human beings who know that we must control our impulses to react because it leads to negetive karma. So my question is if a child does something wrong should parents resort to using the rod or sparing it? What would be a parent's karmic equation with their child if they used the rod for their child's benefit?
Oh you lucky one, my dear vandana.
ReplyDeleteI am so overwhelmed with your experience and not only with the divine part, but guruji's grace n power.
Oh you could only do this by putting yourself completely at GURUJI'S divine feet.
He will never say a word or reveal who he really is, or show off his power and knowledge, or what he is capable of giving us. Its so unforutane that only a few souls are able to taket this abundant knowledge, power, grace and love from him.
Unfortunate are those souls, who inpite of destiny bringing them to GURUJI, come to him only for their material problems. Once that is done they go away, not realizing what they have missed.
People get carried away by publicity and advertised spirituality. They think from their mind rather from their heart. This big business of spirituality, one can only compere it to a MANDI, where everything is sold but you get nothing substantial. Little progress on spiritual path, false state of superficial happiness.
Whatever good happens to them is result of their own faith, not one wave of hand by Guru in a public meetin of thousands. How can grace flow unless that guru meets you one to one, talks to you, knows you on a personal level.
thanks vandana for sharing your experience, which is result of hard work, patience, devotion and surrender to GURUJI.
SEEMA